Sin City Swingers Party Weekend in Las Vegas

It’s the start of another weekend, and we’re still recovering from the last one. But oh, what a series of parties!

It started Wednesday, with friends and Kasidie members arriving in town. People grouped together and went to the new Stripper Murder Mystery play. Sexy and fun. After which some people went to a late dinner while others hooked up for some playtime.

Thursday evening with Girls Uncorked, the monthly wine party for women in the lifestyle that happens the 3rd thursday of every month in 19 cities around the country. The Vegas chapter had a lot of visitors this month! The girls drank and talked, and talked and talked. Wrapping up around 10:00pm when the guys arrived to fetch their inebriated wifes and girlfriends. Some stayed at the hostesses house for a private after-party, some went to check out the new Hustler Club, but most locals headed home due to work the next day. But it was an AMAZING party and all the girls had a blast.

Friday was a party at Kasidie Mansion, hosted by Scott and Nicoleta, with a Playboy theme. Over 120 couples and 10 single girls (no single guys) were dressed in theme…most of the girls in skimpy lingerie and many in full Playboy Bunny outfits. DJ’s Cynful and Synchronicity provided the music as people danced, flirted and played until 4:00am. The vibe was absolutely amazing, just fantastic energy. The sad thing about being the hosts at a party is that as much as we say “we’re not going to work, we’re going to enjoy the party and have fun” the reality is that we always wind up working and rarely get the chance to play. But the guests sure did…there were 10 play areas set up around the house, and they were all going crazy with hot, naked couples from start to finish!

Saturday started with a pool party at the Palms. We had a 2 story bungalow and a cabana filled with hot, string-bikini’d girls and their guys. It’s not a topless pool (boo!) but the bikini’s were skimpy and cokctails flowed continuously. A good start for the evening.

Saturday night kicked off at Posh, the new nightclub at the Crazy Horst III strip club. Lasers, great DJ’s, girls dressed in clubwear with very little fabric. We got there at midnight, met people, danced, and flirted until 2:00am when we headed to the after party in the Crib Suite at the Palms. The girls were naked almost from the start, and people were playing in both bedrooms, in the shower (with a stripper pole in it), in the jacuzzi, and even on the pool table in the living room. Complete debauchery and a lot of fun. We left at sunrise, the first one we’ve seen in awhile, with huge smiles on our faces (and a “sore pussy”).

Sunday was all about being topless and flirty at the pool. Everyone partied at the Artisan, where we had cabanas, daybeds and a sectioned off area. The vanillas just watched as our girls flirted with each other, gave lap dances and had a great time in the sun. We left at 6:00pm, exhausted from a long weekend of fun. Did we really have to go back to work? Ahhh….well at least next weekend is Memorial Day!

Vanilla New Years Eve, You’ve Got to be Kidding

I got an email this afternoon from a hot club in Las Vegas touting their New Years Eve party – “Tables start out at only $1,000 and general admission tickets are just $200″. Oh yes, DJ Vice will be spinning there, whoever that is.

Why would anyone go there? The music will be so loud you won’t be able to have a conversation, and the club will be so packed it’ll be almost impossible to dance. Sure, there will be attractive, well dressed people, but as vanillas they don’t engage or talk with other people. And drinks will be $15 – $20 each, providing you aren’t spending $200+ on bottles of vodka.

Yeah, I’m venting here. And unbelievably happy to be in the lifestyle. There are swingers parties posted on Kasidie.com by groups and clubs all over the country. Everything from fantastic house parties, to professionally produced swinger club parties, to complete hotel takeovers. Most are pretty cheap (compared to vanilla clubs), all are filled with fun, sexy, well dressed, uninhibited people who are there to socialize, meet new friends and have fun.

I know some people just want to roll, sit back in semi-isolation with a few friends, and have great music reverberating their bodies. That’s cool. But for us these vanilla parties are crushingly boring. We’d rather flirt and fuck than chill and people watch. We are in this to be social, to engage with people. Vanillas really don’t have any options, and many prefer their state of repression to actually changing their lives. Fine, we pity them. And we really don’t want to spend New Years Eve with them.